Being a Seeker is supposed to be fun. We can get so caught up in the do's and the don'ts, the rights and the wrongs. Remember this: don't take ANYONE's word for something being true unless you experience it for yourself!
At the end of the day life is short and Love is what matters... So give yourself permission to have fun, feel good, be sexy, express your primal-dirty-self and LETTTT GOOOO!!
If you're not having fun, you've missed the whole point!